Nouvelle Amitié, where the Carte du Tendre begins, 1654
What do we really look for in a partner?
Rank seven things you would want to be true of a partner. See how your list compares.
How it works
- 21 this-or-that choices Two priorities at a time. Pick the one that matters more to you.
- 0 required questions about you Tell us about you, if you like. It lets us compare groups of ten or more.
- 1 ranking beside everyone's See how you compare once ten people have ranked, then explore the results any way you like.
- Financial security
- Social standing
- Education
- Street smarts
- Empathy
- Family-oriented
- Healthy lifestyle
Lists we rarely say out loud
Money, schooling, a family of their own: most people have a view, and few say it on a first date. Ranking them against each other, without your name, shows which ones really come first.
Read the guide: why rank your priorities firstNo account, name or email needed, and your answer is never shown with your name. Results only appear for groups of ten or more.
Questions
Is it wrong to rank money?
No. Every item here matters to someone. The survey asks which matters more to you, not which is right.
Who can see my answers?
No one but you sees your ranking. Everyone else only ever sees results for groups of ten people or more.
Can I change my ranking later?
Yes, while the survey is open. Come back to this page in the same browser, or signed in to the same account, and choose Rank again: your new ranking replaces the old one.