About Roadmantica
The laws of Romance are like the universe, a mystery we spend our lives exploring.
Carte du Tendre · Madeleine de Scudéry, 1654
Roadmantica started for fun, and if some find it useful, then fantastic. We do not claim to be relationship experts; on the contrary, we are as blind as anyone else. We are as lost as y'all in the nebula of love and the human psyche, though we do like common sense.
Roadmantica provides simple tools to help you understand your priorities and navigate La Carte du Tendre, and hopefully avoid a wrong turn. Our ranking approach was inspired by consulting practices, where business folks are always asked to rank their requirements and priorities. Another source of inspiration was Thérèse Hargot (opens in a new tab), who is an expert in human emotional relationships.
Roadmantica is not affiliated with Thérèse Hargot, and she does not endorse Roadmantica in any way. However, we highly encourage you to follow her and listen to her insights (opens in a new tab).
If you invite a person to check how your priorities align, it is never a verdict, only a doorway to understand each other better.
A low alignment score never means that one person is bad; it only means that the journey to find each other might be harder than you want.
What does a Priorities Alignment surface?
- what you feel about another
- what you experience from another
- what you want from another
So… enough bla-bla, have fun finding out
and if you want to put down your phone, go reconnect with your analog-self and go learn tango.