Alignments
Rate a relationship against your own priorities, and see where you fit and where you don't. Privately first. Together only if and when you are ready.
Your people, privately
Nobody is notified. Nothing is sent.
Quick this-or-that picks turn eight dimensions of love into your priorities, ranked. You’d be surprised what wins.
See how a partner or several prospects fit your priorities. Nobody is notified. Nothing is sent.
One link, and they don't need an account. Neither of you sees the other's answers until you've both finished. The score starts a conversation; it isn't a verdict.
Optional — your map stays yoursStep one is the same for everyone: your priorities, ranked. Where the road goes next is up to you.
Chemistry with several people gets cloudy. Map each prospect against your priorities and compare the fits side by side — privately, before you’re too invested. They never know.
Knowing your own priorities offends no one — start there. Map your side privately, and share only if and when you’re ready. A gap becomes “how do we close this together?”, not criticism.
On this scale, a real 3 is a compliment — it means “I am happy”, even “I could marry this.” 4 and 5 are for the exceptional and extraordinary. If you give 5s everywhere, you'll learn nothing together. Honest is kind, here.
3 is a high mark, not a midpoint. 4 and 5 are for the exceptional and extraordinary!
The score isn't a verdict. It's the agenda for the best conversation you'll have this month.
Not signed in? Your alignment stays on this device until you save it. Rankings and survey answers are kept without your name.
Saved? You can both see it, and either of you can delete your side at any time.
An alignment weighs each quality by your priorities, so the gaps that matter most to you count most.