The other five Classic questions are about how you feel when you're with them. Love isn't only what you give; it's also how you feel around them.
Safety and support
Safety is physical and emotional, it means not being afraid of being mocked, caught off guard or put down. Support means knowing that when life gets hard, you don't face it alone. Together they are the ground everything else stands on.
Laughter and respect
Laughing together gives two people their own private language and turns chores into play. Respect means your differences, of opinion, pace or background, are treated as equal and never looked down on.
Radiance: how you see yourself with them
Feeling radiant means that, with them, you feel at your most alive, attractive and strong. The people we love are like mirrors: when the reflection is warm, we flourish; when it makes us smaller, nothing else makes up for it.