You can only be honest if you know who will see your answers. Here's what stays private.
Just for you
An alignment you haven't shared stays with you: in this browser until you save it, then in your account. Nobody is told you've mapped them. There are no public profiles and no feeds.
Sharing is always your choice
Nothing is shared unless you send an invitation. Neither of you sees the other's answers until you've both finished, so neither of you can be swayed by the other.
Never sold
Your answers about your relationships are never sold and never used for advertising. The ads on our public pages are not personalised, and they never appear next to your alignments.