What you feel for someone is what you give. What you experience with them is what you receive. Some qualities answer each other from one person to the other; others stand on their own.
What you give, what you receive, what you want
The questions about what you feel (attraction, admiration, affection, trust and commitment) describe what you bring to them. The questions about what you experience (safety, support, laughter, respect, radiance, priority and freedom) describe what you receive. The criteria are neither: they describe who the person is, on paper.
Four pairs
What one person gives often shows up in what the other receives. Being desired is part of feeling radiant, so attraction pairs with radiance. Being looked up to feels like being valued, so admiration pairs with respect. Wanting a future together shows on ordinary days, so commitment pairs with priority. And someone who trusts you doesn't watch you, so trust pairs with freedom.
The ones that stand alone
Affection is given freely, with no strings, so it expects nothing back. Safety and support are the ground everything else stands on: no single feeling answers them. Laughter belongs to both of you at once. And the pairs are links, not equations: we never turn them into a score, because one person's admiration and the other's feeling of being respected are still two different questions.